Lolz hehe ye i just did some random google till i found it. first i thought it was a vista issue but then i guess after looking at the bios showing only 3gb and someone telling me that it should show 4gb so i thought i had to tweak something on the bios so i googled it with the mobo's name and found it lolz.
Its ok, the maximum % of memory used was only 30% with 15% minimum. I havent tried anythign cuz looking at the memory benchmarks my latency, copy, write, and read benchmarks all went down by a few points to a lot.
So what im gonna do is order another pair of G.Skill of the same model of the ones I already have and see if thats gonna be better even though its $100.00 more the Corsair was only $50.00 after mail and rebate.
If its too much difference and the 4gb is not that much, i might just as well get a G. Skill 4GB with 4-4-4-12 or 5-5-5-15 timing.