Need some girl advice (NOT NORCENT)

krazyq · 07-15-2008, 06:00 PM

Well this situation is driving me crazy for some reason, ive been confused....

Well heres the long story, hopefully one of you care to help!

I met this girl at a party like 2 months ago, she wanted my number, but i got hers instead and lost it( yeah, everyone wanned to kik me arse!!!)
Got it recently and i've been talkin to her.

I asked her if she wanted to hang out and she said sure...but she we didnt end up hanging out and she stopped texting so i was like w/e .
But then she starts textin me like few days later saying her phone was taken away...i was like yeah... w/e!
But then she starts askin me when are we gonna hang out....so im like...she popped the question so she might be interested so i was gonna take her to chicago for dinner this weekend and she agreed....to even stay a night...im lik

, ive never even hung out with u before...so i told her to be straight up with me and let me know if shes messin round or doenst wanna go. But she kept sayin that shes not and she really wants to go and i should stop havin doubts.... she also mentioned she was really shy...

well we never ended up goin ...so im like WTF...is she messin round or did i do something rong?

man...my heads confused now!

Trotter · 07-15-2008, 06:34 PM

Take a deep breath and relax. You're stressing way too much.

If a girl comes on strong, she has a reason. Maybe it's attraction, maybe it's not. Enjoy yourself, but make sure you have your bases covered. Maybe she digs you... or maybe she's looking for a daddy.

Oreo · 07-15-2008, 06:55 PM

She sounds very unmature.

Sweep up the mess and move on.

krazyq · 07-15-2008, 06:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trotter

Take a deep breath and relax. You're stressing way too much.

If a girl comes on strong, she has a reason. Maybe it's attraction, maybe it's not. Enjoy yourself, but make sure you have your bases covered. Maybe she digs you... or maybe she's looking for a daddy.

eh your right...i was stressin out for somereason...

i guess ill just leave it alone and if she tries talkin again then i guess ill see...

i thought it was my ex who was messe dup....but every girl has something wierd about it.....

Metal Chaos · 07-15-2008, 07:04 PM

How old is she? If she's young/immature enough to get her phone taken away I say don't bother with her, you'd have safer luck stepping on a hypodermic needle in the middle of a dump. Also she barely knows you and she wants to spend the night with you? She's moving way too fast for a serious relationship and I doubt anything good will come of it. Try to get to know her better first, hang out as friends and such then try to be more serious if it turns out good but if you find out she's one of those spoiled-has-to-be-my-way type girls I say drop her on her arse faster than you lost her number.

atomic tofu · 07-15-2008, 08:28 PM

shy and coming on strong is usually not a good sign...ie., someone isn't all that honest

experience says...move on...but you do as you please as well

jorsoft03 · 07-15-2008, 08:33 PM

She's a tease. Best to not worry about it and keep her on the back burner. Girls like that aren't worth the trouble. Usually...

ravenmadtaoist · 07-15-2008, 08:52 PM

Well being of the female persuasion myself I'm advising you to err on the side of caution. Having her phone "taken away" sends up huge *under age* smoke signals to me. And the way she'd blowing hot and cold, not really mature behaviour. Take a middle ground, invite her for coffee, something more neutral like that to get to know her. If she blows you off again or keeps up the way she is I would walk away for now. Somethng isn't quite on the up and up with her.

Redmo0n · 07-15-2008, 09:25 PM

Sorry to Hijack, but who's Norcent?

jorsoft03 · 07-15-2008, 09:42 PM

I think we should create a "Who is Norcent" sticky with excerpts from that poor fool's OT posts. I'm getting sick of explaining...

07-15-2008, 06:00 PM	#1 (permalink)
krazyq krazy Techie Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Brooklyn Park, MN Posts: 4,594	Need some girl advice (NOT NORCENT) Well this situation is driving me crazy for some reason, ive been confused.... Well heres the long story, hopefully one of you care to help! I met this girl at a party like 2 months ago, she wanted my number, but i got hers instead and lost it( yeah, everyone wanned to kik me arse!!!) Got it recently and i've been talkin to her. I asked her if she wanted to hang out and she said sure...but she we didnt end up hanging out and she stopped texting so i was like w/e . But then she starts textin me like few days later saying her phone was taken away...i was like yeah... w/e! But then she starts askin me when are we gonna hang out....so im like...she popped the question so she might be interested so i was gonna take her to chicago for dinner this weekend and she agreed....to even stay a night...im lik , ive never even hung out with u before...so i told her to be straight up with me and let me know if shes messin round or doenst wanna go. But she kept sayin that shes not and she really wants to go and i should stop havin doubts.... she also mentioned she was really shy... well we never ended up goin ...so im like WTF...is she messin round or did i do something rong? man...my heads confused now! __________________ 3DMark06 Score 16,776 "Sig created by b1gapl" "Asian girls are awesome, don't worry, it's a gamer thing. For some reason a lot of gamers are attracted to Asian women."- DRIZZt5

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Trotter Tech-Forums Management Das BanHammer Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: The South Posts: 13,958	Re: Need some girl advice (NOT NORCENT) Take a deep breath and relax. You're stressing way too much. If a girl comes on strong, she has a reason. Maybe it's attraction, maybe it's not. Enjoy yourself, but make sure you have your bases covered. Maybe she digs you... or maybe she's looking for a daddy. __________________ Avatar created by pokernod Tech-Forums Management -Das Banhammer- CoolerMaster WaveMaster (black) - Vantec Stealth 520W DFI LanParty UT nF4 SLI-D - AMD Athlon X2 4200+ - Zalman CNPS9500 2GB (2x1 GB) G.SKILL ZS - Seagate 80GB, 250GB SATA - Razer Lachesis ATI 3850 w/Accelero S1 - NEC 19" MultiSync 1970GX RegistryBooster, SpeedUpMyPC, SpyEraser, WinTasks - Uniblue Free Software Trials

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Metal Chaos Panned Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: North Sexyville Posts: 594	Re: Need some girl advice (NOT NORCENT) How old is she? If she's young/immature enough to get her phone taken away I say don't bother with her, you'd have safer luck stepping on a hypodermic needle in the middle of a dump. Also she barely knows you and she wants to spend the night with you? She's moving way too fast for a serious relationship and I doubt anything good will come of it. Try to get to know her better first, hang out as friends and such then try to be more serious if it turns out good but if you find out she's one of those spoiled-has-to-be-my-way type girls I say drop her on her arse faster than you lost her number. __________________ "If you believe in yourself, drink your school, stay in drugs, and don't do milk - you can get work!" -Mr. T Gaming Rig: Asus M3A AMD Phenom 9600, 4GB Corsair XMS2 2 x 500GB HD, ATI HD3870X2 Logitech G15 & X-530 5.1, Razer Diamondback DELL 22" LCD, Antec 900 OCZ GameXStream 700W PSU, Windows Vista Ultimate 64 3DMark03 - 46,540, 3DMark06 - 11,345 Help keep a fellow geek off the streets, donate today. Thanks.

07-15-2008, 08:28 PM	#6 (permalink)
atomic tofu Normal average person Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,583	Re: Need some girl advice (NOT NORCENT) shy and coming on strong is usually not a good sign...ie., someone isn't all that honest experience says...move on...but you do as you please as well __________________ In this day and age, with all the ugliness in the real world that surrounds us, we should leave all the pretentiousness aside on anonymous forums.

07-15-2008, 08:33 PM	#7 (permalink)
jorsoft03 Moderator Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: White Bear Lake, MN Posts: 3,144	Re: Need some girl advice (NOT NORCENT) She's a tease. Best to not worry about it and keep her on the back burner. Girls like that aren't worth the trouble. Usually... __________________ Intel Q6600 (NEW!) 2GB 667mhz Ram Intel DG965WH Mobo ATI x1950 XTX 250gb WD Sata HD 2x NEC dvd burners 600-watt Thermaltake psu Samsung 226BW LCD I Survived Mod Mania Madness '08 And All I got Was This Extra Line in My Sig

07-15-2008, 08:52 PM	#8 (permalink)
ravenmadtaoist Super Techie Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 393	Re: Need some girl advice (NOT NORCENT) Well being of the female persuasion myself I'm advising you to err on the side of caution. Having her phone "taken away" sends up huge under age smoke signals to me. And the way she'd blowing hot and cold, not really mature behaviour. Take a middle ground, invite her for coffee, something more neutral like that to get to know her. If she blows you off again or keeps up the way she is I would walk away for now. Somethng isn't quite on the up and up with her. __________________ Life is a terminal sexually transmitted condition. There is no known cure & we are unable to determine how long you will have to live. LDMS What am I??? Flypaper for freaks????!! My mood today is... 68.63905% - Geek God(dess) [The Geek Test]

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Redmo0n Techalicious Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Perth, Australia Posts: 1,294	Re: Need some girl advice (NOT NORCENT) Sorry to Hijack, but who's Norcent? __________________ I gorge of your kudos.

07-15-2008, 09:42 PM	#10 (permalink)
jorsoft03 Moderator Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: White Bear Lake, MN Posts: 3,144	Re: Need some girl advice (NOT NORCENT) I think we should create a "Who is Norcent" sticky with excerpts from that poor fool's OT posts. I'm getting sick of explaining... __________________ Intel Q6600 (NEW!) 2GB 667mhz Ram Intel DG965WH Mobo ATI x1950 XTX 250gb WD Sata HD 2x NEC dvd burners 600-watt Thermaltake psu Samsung 226BW LCD I Survived Mod Mania Madness '08 And All I got Was This Extra Line in My Sig

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