[mrdinkel]

Well, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up yesterday, due to distance, and basically I have been quite misearable for the last 24 hrs. She was so much of an amazing woman that it has been hard on me.

Anybody got any advice on how to get over her? Because right now I'm heartbroken and looking around for some help.

I can't keep calling her in hopes that somehow it goes back in time and prevents me from making the phone call that ended it all. But at the same time, I know that we both still have feelings for each other.

I got to the stage of tongueing with her, and that i think is what's making it so hard. I'm glad I didn't go ahead with the next level, lest i be standing on the railroad tracks waiting for the train to come by.

I am too much of a hopeless romantic. Maybe someday i can replace her in my heart.

[Trotter]

No easy solution, my brother.

Time is the best cure. Booze, partying, and other women are not.

Pain is never welcome, but it is a sign that we are still alive and that we can be hurt.

You are in my thoughts.

[Jorsoft]

Amen Trotter:beard:

[hercules_upw]

Like Trotter stated, time is the best thing to heal your heart.

I always looked at a break-up this way:
1. It was good while it lasted
2. I learned a few valuable lessons.
3. There's always one that is better than the one you had.
4. If you dwell on the memory, it will only be harder to get over her.
5. It wasn't meant to be anyway.

If i was in your shoes, i would focus on my hobbies, hang out with my friends, and try to keep busy with other things.

It has been my experiance that you find love when you least expect it...

[Alex81388]

You won't forget her for a while...

But it doesn't mean you shouldn't be a happy person to the people around you. Tell them what happened, and I think your true friends will begin to appear before your eyes.

Stay with them, they know how to get you through it, and who knows... One day you may look across the crowd of people and breifly see the world looking back at you in her eyes... but at least you will have built up the stength to turn away.

[MikeyE]

I feel for you brother but I can't help but laugh about seeking relationship advice on a techie forum

[ComatoseClown]

Originally posted by MikeyE
I feel for you brother but I can't help but laugh about seeking relationship advice on a techie forum

how could you be so cruel???

sorry for the loss man. I know how it is...i lost my g/f of 2 years and it took me a long time to get over her.....but then i found my g/f of now... wow...now i'm glad we broke up. so i guess that i'm saying that it's not the end of the world...life goes on...i know it's hard but you'll pull through. she's not the one God had planed for your life. Take care man

[Flanker]

Originally posted by MikeyE
I feel for you brother but I can't help but laugh about seeking relationship advice on a techie forum

Yea, I found it amusing too. But you got some excellent advice from the members here so I guess its all good. They gave very good advice, just follow it and you'll be fine.

[furtivefelon]

you don't, wait for it to brew, and seek sweet sweet revenge..

only with time, you will get over her... However, there is a reason people have rebound girlfriends right after a relationship, they help some people get over their loved ones faster..

[mrdinkel]

most of what's been said here has helped me a lot. Now I've just got to follow through on what some others have told me.

And to those of you who were looking at using this thread to take cheap shots at someone in pain, oh well... **** happens.