had to delete the post was gonna put. didn't read the post quite right, oops. guess I'll never complain about others again

Anyhow, found this see if it helps. guess its a known thing.
SMS: Administrator Console and SMS Services Cannot Connect to SQL Server
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This article was previously published under Q291339
SYMPTOMS
In Systems Management Server (SMS) 2.0 sites in which both the site server and the server that is running Microsoft SQL Server are located on the same computer, the SMS Administrator console and the SMS services and threads may not connect to the SQL database under certain conditions.
The following entry may be logged in the Smsprov.log file:
E:\OPALSP2\Sdk_provider\Nt\Smsprov\SspObjectQuery. cpp(4233) : SQL Connection attempt timed out
SQL Error: Unable to connect: SQL Server is unavailable or does not exist. General network error. Check your documentation.
The following entry may be logged in an SMS Executive service thread such as Hman.log:
~Cannot connect to the site source on the database, sleep 10 minutes..
Other programs may not have SQL connectivity issues. For example, you may be able to successfully connect with and run queries from the SQL Server Query Analyzer, even from the SMS database. You may not notice any errors or warnings in the SQL error log files.
1. Start the ODBC Data Source Administrator tool from Control Panel.
2. Click the System DSN tab, and then double click LocalServer.
3. Click Next.
4. Click Client Configuration.
5. Click Named Pipes in the Network Libraries section.
6. Click OK.
7. Make sure that With Windows NT authentication using the network login ID is selected.
8. Click Next, and then click Finish.
Heh, gues I could of just posted the link... oh well, already cut n'pasted.