Here is the forum that I use:
CodeGuru
And a really good reference site if your not sure what a function does:
C++ Reference
Ive been programming C++ for about a year now. Its not hard at all once you hit that "benchmark" where your brain just clicks and you can suddenly think just like the computer does, lol. Its much easier when you can read your code top to bottom and execute it in your head, makes debugging easier.