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First, make sure that everything you want is compatible. I know that Dell uses propriatery parts, so you're stuck there.
First thing you would want to do is upgrade the PSU, then the graphics card, then the memory.
The memory you have now is good, but you will want a better graphics card, and probably a new power supply. I believe Dell's have 300W stock PSU's, you will want 450 minimum.