The sad thing is..is you need to be like that for that game in order to get anywhere with it.
I mean....unless everyone is 100% focused, knows the raid 100% , good gear, etc it'll take you multiple days to do anything. So unless you're extremely strick ( was actually the gm of a small raid guild before so i know) you can't get anything done..try being relaxed and all you get is like 10% attendance and no one gets anywhere
BUT of course this is raiding back before all the freebies came out(use to you had to do 10/25 man raids to get anything good..now you get better gear from the 5 man instances :| )